Abomatron
Resident
Prepare for ABOMINATION!
Posts: 198
|
Post by Abomatron on May 11, 2008 3:01:48 GMT -4
if the headline gets me kicked off here, oh well... I just had to throw this out... for those of you who know of my prom experience, you know it was a rather hurtful one... what really pisses me off is that I now find out how HAPPY the girl who denied me is going to be for prom THIS year... heh... idk how to explain it... it's like having a stitched up wound open up again and raped... I'm not even sure I'll sleep well tonight... here's a brief plot summary: Me: will you go out with me? girl: yes speed up time till day before prom me: so are you ready? girl: do you like me? me: yes? girl: i was afraid of that\ me:what? girl: i'm afraid i don't want to go out you if you LIKE me. i wouldn't want to hurt your feelings *little did she know that by cancelling the plans while I just got done paying for my 80 dollar ticket, that I was hurt enough* speed up to prom night me: MUAHAHAHAHAHA! (dumps lax and male enhancements into punch bowl and scurries home) speed up three weeks prinicipal: sir, you are going to be expelled and i'm not sure if you'll be able to graduate this year me: speed up to graduation me: WOOHOO I MADE IT!*miraculously* speed up to summer me: my heart still aches speed up till now same girl:I'm so excited to go to prom this year! *without ME* me: ... dammit... >_< ungrateful she-dog! the worst part is that i can't completely cut off connections... she still has something of mine... I need to get it back... but when i do... maybe that's when I'll go full out crazy and burn her house down... ^_^ jk about the burning... maybe some itch powder envelopes would suffice...
|
|
|
Post by Machaeus on May 11, 2008 12:20:44 GMT -4
One too many stars in the second cuss word. Now, as for this young lady...I agree. That's a "WTF" factor of Over 9000 right there...but so is putting LAXATIVES AND MALE ENHANCEMENTS in the PUNCH. Anyways. Next chance you get, talk to her, tell her that she hurt you really badly, both in heart and wallet, and that you need back that whatever so you can cut off communications. (And if you plan on this being permanent, tell her that too.) Best-case scenario, she realizes too late that she lost a friend, and that she's the reason she lost that friend in the first place. Ergo, she gives back your whatever and proceeds to think about it, or she tries to patch things up, and your friendship stays. That last part isn't impossible. Improbable, but not impossible.
|
|
|
Post by Zero on May 11, 2008 15:24:18 GMT -4
My honest viewpoint:
1. She didn't take you advances seriously when you first asked her. It's amazing how you can have a crush while she remains totally oblivious to it, but you can't blame her for that. You have to be straight forward with your feelings in the first place.
2. When she asked you if you liked her, then someone else told her, and she asked to to see if it was true, otherwise she would have never agreed to go with you in the first place. Once again, not her fault.
3. You obviously didn't pay for her ticket, so you didn't waste any money, you still went to the prom after all.
4. Spiking the punch... very stupid and DANGEROUS(you could have KILLED someone), and makes me question your rationality.
5. Heart aching during summer... don't let it dominate you, or you'll never be happy.
6. Calling her a bitch for enjoying herself without you... makes you look self absorbed and you need to learn some humility.
All in all...
Be honest and let her know how you feel, but don't treat her like a traitor, she wasn't at fault. Be peaceable and above all things try to preserve your friendship. That will make you the better person.
|
|
|
Post by umd on May 11, 2008 19:08:30 GMT -4
Dude that's terrible with a capital T!
|
|
Abomatron
Resident
Prepare for ABOMINATION!
Posts: 198
|
Post by Abomatron on May 11, 2008 20:34:58 GMT -4
my apologies... that was a spur of the moment post... I guess something blew a fuse last night... it was late, I wasnt thinking clearly... and yeah, I went over the 'someone could've died' thing many times in my head... in reality, I felt like screaming... I felt like breaking something... but everyone in my house was sleeping... I would've hated for them to see me that way... so I just posted bulletins here and there... once again, sorry you all had to read that... funny how people can be angry at the world: angry enough to want to cause destruction, but composed enough to stay still and type on a computer...
Z, my rationality when it comes to me and females is a very awkward one... if the slightest thing goes wrong, I go ballistic... I have no idea what path I should take when it comes to life with love... it's so overrated... but I want it... pieces of it... is it wrong to always think of myself as a broken object?
|
|
|
Post by Zero on May 11, 2008 22:01:04 GMT -4
Z, my rationality when it comes to me and females is a very awkward one... if the slightest thing goes wrong, I go ballistic... I have no idea what path I should take when it comes to life with love... it's so overrated... but I want it... pieces of it... is it wrong to always think of myself as a broken object? That's not love. That's called a crush. And crushes hurt, so it makes sense that you feel broken. There's nothing wrong with that. It's normal. What's not normal, is going "ballistic". You're of legal age now, you need to be more mature than that. You need to be a man and and make sensible decisions. Know you weaknesses and flaws, use the experience to better yourself. How? What could you have done differently? No rational adult is gonna support a "ballistic" way of thinking. No one's gonna like you. That's how you get killed in the real world. Hell, I've been in the real world for 4 years now, and I'm STILL learning the ropes. Once school is over, it's a whole new ball game. The trials you face now and how you handle them now, will determine what kind of man you'll be. So ask yourself, what kind of man do you want to be? Can you be the man you want to be? How can you make it happen? Don't give me an answer. That's only for you to know.
|
|
Abomatron
Resident
Prepare for ABOMINATION!
Posts: 198
|
Post by Abomatron on May 11, 2008 22:34:40 GMT -4
Z, my rationality when it comes to me and females is a very awkward one... if the slightest thing goes wrong, I go ballistic... I have no idea what path I should take when it comes to life with love... it's so overrated... but I want it... pieces of it... is it wrong to always think of myself as a broken object? That's not love. That's called a crush. And crushes hurt, so it makes sense that you feel broken. There's nothing wrong with that. It's normal. What's not normal, is going "ballistic". You're of legal age now, you need to be more mature than that. You need to be a man and and make sensible decisions. Know you weaknesses and flaws, use the experience to better yourself. How? What could you have done differently? No rational adult is gonna support a "ballistic" way of thinking. No one's gonna like you. That's how you get killed in the real world. Hell, I've been in the real world for 4 years now, and I'm STILL learning the ropes. Once school is over, it's a whole new ball game. The trials you face now and how you handle them now, will determine what kind of man you'll be. So ask yourself, what kind of man do you want to be? Can you be the man you want to be? How can you make it happen? Don't give me an answer. That's only for you to know. thanks... I'll ponder upon that now... but for now, let's forget this ever happened and resume normal happy forum posting^_^ I'm done here... thanks to all who replied... gave me something to think on...
|
|
|
Post by White Lightning on May 11, 2008 22:38:49 GMT -4
Good to know you're feeling better! ;D Yeah I've been though my share of guys that where real *ssh*l*s. My last ex was the worst.
|
|
Abomatron
Resident
Prepare for ABOMINATION!
Posts: 198
|
Post by Abomatron on May 11, 2008 23:16:22 GMT -4
Good to know you're feeling better! ;D Yeah I've been though my share of guys that where real *ssh*l*s. My last ex was the worst. glad to see I'm never alone on these things...
|
|